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| My only comfort in both life and death is that, I with body and soul am not my own, but belong unto my faithful Saviour Jesus Christ; who, with his precious blood, has fully satisfied for all my sins, and delivered me from all the power of the devil; and | |
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| United States of America | |
| Orthodox Presbyterian Church (OPC) | |
| www.draftingservices.com | |
| Single- Never Married | |
| I am a non-smoker | |
| I drink occasionally | |
| Bachelor's degree | |
| I would like to have children one day, AND/OR would gladly accept others. | |
Christ was drawing me to Himself for a long time before I was converted at the age of 26. A pivotal point in my life was when I was about the age of twelve. That's when I can remember seriously thinking about God. I even went so far as bringing the topic up to my parents, who were raising me Catholic. Unfortunately they just kind of blew me off. I persisted with questions for a while, but they had no answers. That kind of steered me to suppress my thoughts of God, my sinfulness, my helplessness, hell, and evil. Then as I got into my late teenage years I had a conviction of sin that my friends seemingly did not have. They'd glory in their teenage pranks, and I'd end up feeling guilty when I joined in. I was still blind and lost, and this sense of guilt and condemnation for things that I had done wrong throughout my life continued until I got saved. During these years when I was being drawn to Christ there were more seeds being planted. For example, stumbling across a Christian radio show, someone giving me a bible and recorded Christian sermons, working with a disgruntled Christian - lol. So this all culminated in my conversion when I was 26, which was a year after I graduate from college (I started college late, and it took me some time to figure out what to major in.). For some reason (God) I started surfing through Christian TV. This was the most receptive that I had ever been to born again Christians. They always bothered me, but I didn't know why, nor did I connect them to Christ or a way out of my sin. They just got me mad and I thought they were really weird! Lol! As I was saying, I started parsing through different Christian TV programs on Sundays. Some of them were just strange, so I'd turn them off. Eventually I stumbled upon a good preacher. I was probably listening to him preach for a few Sundays in a row, and then it all made sense! The scene is stuck in my head. I can see myself sitting on my couch, and at the end of the pastor’s program, the light bulb went on. It was like a sheet was pulled from before my eyes and I could understand the glorious and simple gospel of Christ. I stood up off of my couch and said yes about two or three times. I believed and knew I just had to say yes in repentance. So I did, and my burden was lifted. =) As for my walk these days, it’s going good. |
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TULIP has completely humbled me, and made me able to see myself no different than any unbeliever, except for the grace of God. |
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Yes. It's my aim to set apart time every day to read the Word and pray. I'm pretty good at doing so, and have found great benefit from that in my life. =) Lately I've been reading Joe Morecraft's book on worship / the regulative principle. |
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Noah, because he had good morals. For instance, he disciplined the chickens on the Ark for using "fowl" language. ![]() |
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Sometimes!! - lol! |
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I haven't asked, so I'm guessing... funny, trustworthy, passionate, and smart. |
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God. ...I know he's not a "what", but you get the point. ![]() |
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1.God 2.My salvation 3.My family |
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A godly, light-hearted, positive woman who likes to be more or less physically fit is attractive.
As for me... I'm goofy, but serious. Or should I say serious, but goofy. - It depends on the day and situation. =) I can be really funny sometimes. In general I like to make people laugh. Doing so makes me laugh too, and brings out the humor in other people. The simple things in life bring me great joy, so some may say I'm boring!? :p Also... I'm easy going, not an extrovert - though I wish I were, love church, love my family, and um, that's all that's coming to mind right now. =) |
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| Two pastors from my former church were quite influential on me. Their love and dedication for the Lord left an impression on me. | |
My last serious relationship was many years ago, and I unfortunately had to end it because we went in two different directions in life. I was seeking the Lord, and she was not. I can look back on it and say that a good friend can really enrich your life. :-)
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| I absolutely love the following line from "The Call of the Entrepreneur"... The movie revolves around three successful entrepreneurs, and how their work relates to God's calling on some people to be entrepreneurs. One of them is a Michigan farmer who tells of an encounter that he had with his banker only one year after he bought his farm (At the age of only 26.). As the farmer tells it... The banker said to him, "You're broke, get out." Then the farmer looked the banker square in his eyes and said, "What do I have to do to make it right?" His statement is absolutely incredible to me. He wouldn't take no for a answer, yet was flexible in dealing with the banker. And indeed the young farmer went on to bring his farm from red to black. Incredible! ...There's actually a link to this very scene, which works out incredibly well: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pem0ZSsMQVA | |
I run a CAD Consultancy business. My projects come from connecting with different AEC industry companies around NYC. I definitely have an entrepreneurial spirit. I have a BS in Civil Engineering, and that's how I got into my line of work. I've also recently contacted my state's board of professions, to find out my eligibility to sit for my professional engineer's license exam. For one to practice engineering under his own company, he could only do so with a license. I would like to start doing this as well, hence why I contacted my state board. I’m kind of excited about starting this second business, if things go as planned. I enjoy both my work, and the situation of working for myself. It is basically my dream job, because I believe I'm where the Lord wants me to be. |
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Goals are important to me, otherwise I feel that I’m left just reacting to life as it happens. Glorifying God in all I do is my chief end, so my specific goals revolve around this. “Therefore whether you eat or drink or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.” – 1 Cor 10:31. Some of those specifics would be; I aim to model Christian character, run a successful business, get married, be a faithful member of my church, etc. etc. |
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When I have the time, the sport handball. Some other things I like to do, in no particular order are: Read the bible in the morning, listen to music, read theology books, joke around, visit my family (including hanging out with my nephews and nieces), work, do street evangelism (although I haven’t done it in about a year), and be physically active. Eating is also a favorite activity of mine ;-). I try to eat healthy and I focus on buying organic food. Also, my diet has been expanding by trying new foods. I'm even learning to cook because of the new foods I've been trying. I'm not sophisticated at this yet, but I'm coming along (slowly). Overall, when eating I try to stay away from processed foods, and if I do buy processed foods I look for those that don't use GMO ingredients. I also find staying abreast of the financial markets interesting and fun. The markets are connected to governmental policy, so I know something about that too. Lastly, work is fun for me. I get a real sense of accomplishment meeting clients' needs (being a Christ like servant to them). I know God made me to work, that work is good, and that his kingdom breaks into society through my work unto Him. This really encourages me. Oh yeah, and I love keeping the Lord's day holy. Completely stopping everything else to focus on the Lord and fellowship on Sunday is wonderful. |
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I was born and raised on Long Island, New York. I moved to NYC for work about eleven years ago.
I've traveled, mainly through short-term missions, and that would be to Haiti, Paraguay, and the Dominican Republic. Outside of this I've just done some normal type of traveling within the US. ...That's about it. I'm not into travel. |
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My family, I adore them. -Unfortunately they aren't Christians. My immediate family is my father + step-mother, mother, older sister and younger brother. My brother and sister are both married with kids, and I LOVE my nieces and nephews, who I also consider my immediate family.
____ I'd relocate if I could, but at the moment doing so is not an option. Not because of family ties, but because my clientele are all here in NYC. Therefore, I'm grounded here, happily so, for at least the time being. |
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I'm 38 y.o. and a bit taller than 5'8" - barefoot. :-) ____ I think the "brother you're like a six" article that is published on the boundless website does a good job of briefly explaining how to seek a spouse. I'm not a fan of using websites as sources for doctrine, but this article is noteworthy. ____ Here's a little bit more about why I am on SGS. It goes something like this: In my late twenties and early thirties I thought it was better to seek the Lord as a single. That was good for then, but a couple of years ago I came to the conviction that I desire to be married. Therefore I'm here looking for a lady who is interested in the same for herself. =) The kind of marriage that I’d like would be one that would exist to first glorify God. I think it’s pretty clear from Ephesians 5 and other texts that the primary purpose of marriage is to serve God / his covenant, and not to first serve me and my desires. So even though my desires are good, they need to be properly ordered within God's plan for marriage. Having said this, I’ll admit though, serving God / his covenant isn’t always the first thing that comes to mind when I think of how I'd like to be married. Most of the time I probably think of me first, and then God second, when I know that I shouldn’t. - Such is the life and sanctification of a sinner saved by grace, eh? ;-) Speaking of my own desires for marriage, they would be: her companionship, to enjoy the exhilarations of life with her, to joke and laugh with her, to mature with her into the twilight years of our lives, strength in our numbers, having a godly lineage with her (whether by birth, adoption or discipleship of non-offspring believers), and to be humbled. Yes, I said, “to be humbled.” Marriage is probably very humbling. How could living with a spouse 24/7 not be!? ...Humility is good, and I desire to be more humble. Also, I think part of the way I could make my marriage God glorifying, would be by being my wife's servant-leader, provider and protector. That's how I think it'd work out on my end, as the man in the relationship. I’m looking for a woman who could recognize the basics of biblical manhood that I just described. And in response to me being a man worthy of her, a woman who would know that at the heart of biblical womanhood / femininity there would be a freedom to respond to my strength and leadership, by affirming, receiving and nurturing my manhood. In other words, it would bring her joy and satisfaction to strengthen the worthy strength that she would receive from me. Marriage is an incredible dance, isn’t it!? Lastly, for a relationship like this to come together, like-mindedness and an age difference that both she and I are comfortable with would make it work. So age would be a case-by-case thing to be determined. I believe precedent has been set for a large age gap to work out, if that be the scenario that I find myself in. The precedent that I'm thinking of is that, at the age of 41 Martin Luther married the 26 year old Katherina von Bora. From what I understand, they had a happy and successful marriage, with a bunch of kids too. =) ____ And lastly, some jokes!!... What man in the Bible spoke when he was a very small baby? Job (Job 3:1) "Job opened his mouth and cursed the day of his birth" What insect went to Egypt on a donkey? The Flea: The angel told Joseph to take Mary, the baby and flee into Egypt. Who was the shortest man in the Bible? Bildad the Shuhite (shoe-height) Next smallest? Nehemiah (Knee high miah) ____ ...And, you can reach me directly at brian.m.curran atgmaildotcom. |
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