I could write a small book here... All men are hedonists by nature and God has ordained their desires. Some men desire Christ, most men desire evil. This actually makes a huge difference in how I behave and how I treat other people.

I enjoy people with ambition and passion, and a real desire to serve the kingdom in whatever way God has gifted them. Intelligence and an appreciation for learning and culture is very important. On the other hand, those who are loud, seek their own attention, or simply lack Christ-centered purpose in life do not appeal to me. As for women in particular, I am attracted to sweetness, gentleness, and humility. A heart for evangelism is a huge plus, and her first priorities are ministering to church and family. I hope that she has a positive attitude, grateful heart, and a good sense of humor.

You will show me the path of life
In your presence is fullness of joy
At your right hand are pleasures forevermore
-Ps. 16:11

I want to use the gifts and opportunities God has given me to build God's kingdom. I don't want to leave anything on the court, so to speak, when I die, but rather hope that every breath I took was for the sole purpose of proclaiming the beauty and glory of my savior. In particular I enjoy teaching, namely young men who are also passionate about loving God and others. I doubt I will work an 8-5 job in engineering much longer. I am working toward financial independence so I will have more time for ministry and family. Eventually I'd like to pursue a masters degree.

I try to study in ways that will benefit my future ministry endeavors--so lots of reading and writing. I also enjoy (slowly) learning new languages. My roommates and I try to host a dinner party once a month, and we play board games or watch movies occasionally as well. Otherwise I like to spend time with my community group from church. My vacations tend to be geared toward outdoors because the rest of my life is indoors. I also enjoy cooking, particularly Indian food (such as curry). A messy kitchen bothers me deeply.

I was born in a Denver suburb but spent most of my childhood in rural, northern Pennsylvania. I love the mountains, hills, and coast. (Sorry, Midwest!) Right now I live in Cincinnati, which has just enough rolling terrain to keep me sane. As for travel---I have been all over the US and Canada. I have only been overseas once, to mainly German-speaking countries. I hope to travel more and might even live overseas if the opportunity presented itself.

This questionnaire does not cover weaknesses or imperfections, and I have many. Nevertheless I believe that all relationships, friendship through marriage, are designed for our sanctification. Sanctification is not easy but it does make us more like Christ, which is beautiful. :)